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Originally Posted by BlueMerleGirl
But one continual theme in my head is that life has no meaning. I am trying to take my mind off how I am feeling and just live, so maybe that will help.
But how do you guys find meaning? I don't really want to advance much further in my career because I don't want more responsibility. I am thinking of having more kids but I don't know.
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welcome to being an adult in 2017 .... I would say 90% of all working adults feel as you do ... I know I do ...
to not put too fine a point on it ... life has no meaning ... any meaning it has is because we give meaning to it ... so ... what meaning do you want it to have ... work .. family .. home chores ... take a lot out of one ... what are you doing to refill yourself ... life will empty you out ... there must be a source of filling or you will get more and more depressed , empty and worn down ... when your child is older you can be involved in school and her life ... but now ... what do you do ... where does your bliss lie ... seek that and you will fill yourself ... what brought you joy as a child ... start there ... when you find it you will know ... for years mine was helping with boy scouts ... do this for yourself ... when you are refilled you will be a better worker ... wife ... mother ... human ... happy hunting .... Tigger.