I agree - my ex-husband was my only adult relationship at the time we divorced, and I half expected the general male population to think the way he did. Power-dating (or rebounding, or "my seek and destroy mission", as one of my friends called it) along with confiding in my male friends went a really long way in opening myself up to the fact that every man is different. It really helped to have so many perspectives other than the one I thought I was locked into.