I agree, there is website alluding to this be careful how you relate to people. I agree 100%. I often wonder though, what happens at integration when therapy is deemed successful is indeed over. Do you just get ready to be popular without arguments lol? I think it is life time of just being this way I don't it ever goes away. I think unless you are preparing for some sort of fame then it shouldn't be forced. I'd say just rely on the alters to handle the day care for the family and hold a job that is about all you can ask for. If they knew what that entailed they would really be amazed a feel bad who wants that now that I shared all my stuff for them to over care take and whisper even more.