Hostile angry retribution may feel good in the moment...but in my opinion the best way to get back at a abuser is to ignore them out of existence. Validating that they have hurt you is only feeding the monster.

I was given the opportunity to provide a 'Victim Impact Statement' at the Court Sentencing of my abusers, But I made the choice to deprive them of that...I went to lunch with my dear friend instead. My Abusers don't get to know what is in my mind, my thoughts belong only to me, and I refuse to allow them to have them.