First of all, I could not be happier to hear that you are moving soon.
Second, I am so, so sorry that you have to have such grief on top of the grief you are already going through.
Third, I have never heard of anything more cruel than the way you are being treated. Shame, shame on those people. They have a lot to learn about how to treat another - and a lot to learn about life altogether.
Fourth, Here's a big HUG for you: