This is what I believe to be the way things should be in the mens' and womens' forums and the opposite sexes replying.
The only time a reply by the opposite sex should be made in either forum is if the OP has requested the replies. If someone other than the OP would like another's point of view, a new thread should be started with their request.
Rule of thumb...if the OP does NOT request opposite sex responses, then there should be respect and no responses posted.
Hope this clears things up!
Hugsss
sabby