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Rose 76 posted: People have come from backgrounds just as hard as his - and even harder - and didn't conclude that their past was an excuse to be rotten to someone who gets close to them.
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I just wanted to doubly emphasize what Rose76 said.
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And there he comes back, saying all the wonderful things and all the beautiful promises of a great future and all the love that he has, and that he wants me back, that he truly loves me and all that he said in anger should just be viewed as that, things said during a heated moment.
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You are aware that this is exactly what all abusers do. They mix in some sweet sounding, self-justifying lies with their abusive, hateful venom. Do not forget the "cycle of abuse" (Google that for a review). Abusers keep the relationship going with these lies. If they didn't offer these lies, the people they are abusing would have been gone long ago.