I have no RL friends.

I'm a recent college grad and all my friends scattered across the country to pursue whatever dreams they had. Startups, PhDs, med school, law school, research, you name it. Then I never bothered to make new friends.

At first I felt all sad and lonely, but then I realized I was investing too much of my happiness into other people. I was too dependent on them. I mean, why should my happiness be determined by what other people do or don't do, or by their presence? And why should my happiness be determined by relationship status? I should be able to be happy on my own!

Of course I want to make new friends and get into a relationship, but I'm totally content flying solo for now. And really, I've got tons of great friends online who are there for me when I need them. Some people may think "hahaha, what a loser!", but I don't care. At least I have the support that I need. That's all I care about.