I don't know. I've never been in a relationship. I'm going to wait until we're in a relationship before sex. Sex is a big issue for me. I've had guys wave the "Let's be BF/GF" and then "change their mind" after sex. So my goal is to take things slow.

I didn't go in with any expectations, nor did I try to fantasize or worry if he's "the one". I was surprised when I walked in and met him and he gave me a big hug as if I he'd known me forever, and we hugged as we departed. We never talked sex. We didn't talk past relationships. It wasn't an interrogation of "let's see how compatible we are", and we just let the conversation run it's course and simply enjoyed each other's company.