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Old Mar 04, 2017, 09:13 PM
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This actually sounds like emotional blackmail to me.

"Emotional blackmail and FOG, terms coined by psychotherapist Susan Forward, are about controlling people in relationships and the theory that fear, obligation and guilt ("FOG") are the transactional dynamics at play between the controller and the person being controlled."

That behavior sort of reminds me of my mother, who has borderline personality disorder. The comments that she makes are definitely sarcastic and an attempt to make you feel bad for her anger.

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