This line jumped out at me:
"I'm not rejecting you. If it wasn't for the boundaries of psychotherapy we'd be having wild passionate sex right now. I'd be all for it."
Because it's very explicit. I don't just mean sexually explicit. But the fact that he's saying, if it wasn't for the ethics of his profession, he'd sleep with you (even though both of you are married--right, he's married, too?) That statement crossed a line. Some of the others didn't, or are subject to interpretation. But that one, there's no questions...
When do you see T2 again? Hugs...