My T is mid- to late 60s. Seems tall to me, but I don't think she's that much taller than my 5'4"--she's just always wearing heels, and the way she presents herself, she just seems tall. She's always well-dressed, and has said Nordstrom is her favorite store. Fairly short brown hair (dyed to cover grays, I assume). I want to say her eyes are hazel, but they could be brown. No glasses, unless she has to read something. Always looks pulled together, like makeup on, hair done, etc. (I mentioned this to her once recently, and she laughed and said, "That takes work, honey!")

Marriage counselor is in his early 50s (he told us when we asked), about 5'5", maybe 5'6", also with male pattern baldness, but with dark brown/black hair that's usually really short. Clean-shaven. Wears glasses. Deep brown eyes. Kinda nerdy looking. Thin/athletic build. He...does not look pulled together. Tends to wear dress shirts or suit jackets that are too big for him (after we left one time, H referenced the Talking Heads "Once in a Lifetime" video, and now I can't get that out of my head if he wears that jacket.) I want to be like, "You know, they make fitted and slim fit dress shirts, right?" Sometimes wears a tie. Other times wears kinda busted up looking polo shirts with a couple buttons undone so you can see his graying chest hair. Hairy arms. Shoes often look beat up (T and I once had a conversation about this,and she was like, "Have you seen his shoes? I noticed them once in a meeting, and the soles were coming off!" He's since retired that pair).

(I'm sure you all understand why at one time I had erotic transference for this man ).