You have ASD , but by the sound of it they are treating you like they expect you to know and understand social cues and boundaries that most clients with ASD have difficulty with , they sound like a bunch of imbeciles as you said , and have blown things way out of proportion , involving police in simple client matters ,let alone it progressing to actual court and jail time, Is beyond daft and never should have happened , I would say if you can get not just away from the people of this agency , but file a restraining order or order of protection from these people , ordinarily I believe that court really solves nothing ( when has adding government and Bure critic bull**** solved anything ? ) but in this case it sounds warranted , you are a disabled or at risk segment of the population who has been seriously violated by these people , have had your good name ruined by legal actions that never should have happened in the first place .

This makes my blood boil , these people are supposed to help you "navigate" the complex social structure , and what they have really done is fail miserably at there jobs , I believe you are across the pond from me , but in this country and maybe yours , you will need to look into this, but find out if you can or entitled to submit a letter to your records, with your side of the story explaining what has happened and has gone wrong in there treatment of you , before dismissing these morons and getting someone who is more experienced and knowledgeable about ASD ,to me it sounds like transference gone wrong ,with them not understanding that by virtue of you being on the spectrum they handled it totally wrong , as you said the issue could have and should have been a sit down and talk moment , we call it a "teachable moment" .

PS, don't let them know they deserve to die like the dogs they are,that would only complicate things.

Misterpain