So as some of you may have followed my posts, i have been dealing with someone who is narcisstic. I have struggled to leave for a long time, every time I tried, he overpowered me mentally and physically. This time, i educated myself as much as possible and planned it out so he would be away at work.
Last night I broke the ice and told him we were done for good.
At first, he was angry and threatened to chop my head off publicly. After a short abusive exchange on the phone I hung up.
He called back, pleading and crying. He wanted to skype with the children and put on a show of sobbing for me back. I made my boundaries clear and for now he has stopped trying to call and text.
I feel so relieved. I cant believe I finally did it.
Now to deal with the excessive financial mess he has left me with, pick up the pieces and move on with my children.
Any advice on what to expect and how to deal with it, would be greatly appreciated