Thank you all for the kind words. I didn't realize how bad things were until I sought therapy. It was there I realized my mother and partner are narcissists.
I don't do reddit, but I plan to keep on reading and check out some books for healing from an abusive relationship.
I feel like im waiting on his game playing at the minute. He has switched tactics lots already and it has only been 24 hours.
I just want to stay strong and get through this in one piece.

Childofchaos, i know the pain of being stuck with a narcissistic mother. To leave this relationship I came to rent out my parents basement and it has been hell so far. I'm working hard to move out of here asap. Then I can't start living. I feel so free right now.