i agree with alex too. It'd be different i think if you had a long relationship... it'd still be up to you but it would be awkward for sure.

here's one tip i picked up while checking out T's...

* always let them know you are "shopping" - it releases you from feeling obligated to them
* tell them you'd also like to consider other T's in their clinic, if applicable, ask who else they might recommend

even if you had no intention of checking them out you do leave that door open by saying it.

in the meantime, something you could try that will help you understand what you are and are not looking for, and will help a new T, is if you write down the things about this appt that you didn't like, why and then how you felt about each. Be as detailed as possible.

i trusted my instincts with my T... how you relate to them is the biggest factor i think.