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Originally Posted by cielpur
Yes, the only way out of a scapegoat role is to get strong and to develop interpersonal tools to psychologically protect yourself from being bullied, scapegoated and shamed. There are resources everywhere (bookstores, online) that can help you achieve that. It's a long, ongoing process that never ends. Once you've been thrown into the scapegoat role, it's nearly impossible to completely 100% escape, because triggers exist everywhere.
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Hmmm. That's sad that it's impossible to escape. But what if we learn to deal differently with the triggers? Okay...I am going to be doing a lot of work in this area as I believe it is a CORE ISSUE and I really don't want to have suicidal ideation. I see being the scapegoat as being the victim and I don't want that role anymore. I want to reject that role.