It's true that T's are human, but I think it's okay to be frustrated and disappointed when you pay someone to help you and they are unable to do that.

My T has not brought his "A" game to the table many times in the two years I've seen him. I'm sympathetic--everybody has 'off' days, after all--but I also skip a few sessions and/or lower my expectations.

If I were not in a position to do those things, I would consider finding a new therapist.

I hope you find a solution that works for you.