Thread: is this abuse?
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Old Mar 06, 2017, 07:38 AM
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Has she always behabed this way or is it something that has started recently or is seriously getting worse behavior that had only been sort of a glimpse of before.

Ugh, I hate to sat this because Im getting older myself but I saw my grandmother become this way & as my mom got older, saw similar behavior.
With my grandma, it was the beginnings of Alzheimers which became so bad at the end of her life. My mother ended up dying of cancer before her behavior progressed to that bad point but she was always gettung mad & havging up the phone on me when I didnt say what she wanted to hear. I promised myself that I woukd NEVER behave like either of them when I got older & Im very careful in watching how I behave or react as I get older.

I dont know what it is thst really causes this kind of behavior. Maybe they are just resenting getting older & taking it out on those around. In the cases I experienced them were very unhappy people at the way their life had ended up & that unhappiness just spread over their whole life touching all around them as if wanting everyone else to be as misersble as they were.....as Alzheimers took over my grandma she had no idea
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