Thank you Myrto and thank you Stopdog for validating my experience. This is exactly how I feel about it. They are being paid (alot of money) for their time and I totally agree, if they are not up to it, they should just cancel. I would much prefer that. At least then I only lose one session and not months trying to rebuild my trust in the relationship. Not to mention the four hour round trip that I also do to see T in the first place!