Actually that conversation with the T was last Spring (trying to remember)--I am thinking she said, "that's not you; you are quiet and don't cause problems." I do remember the emotion in her voice though. She rarely gets emotional so it would make me "sit up straighter" when it happened. The thing is, I am not quiet, just ask H!
Now that I think about it, when I first saw her in October 2015--I really was quiet. I was in extreme pain, depressed and told her I was going because I was told I needed to because of my attempt. I then emphasized that I didnt have much to say because I was not abused as a child, did not have a "hard" life, etc. I felt totally unemotioanally involved/apathetic about therapy for the first 6 months.