Hi Zedsdead
Not advise............but
got to say.........REALLY WELL DONE!!!!
RESPECT!!!!!

And hoping that you are so VERY proud of yourself!!! You deserve to be!!!!
And honestly..........maybe you'll come across some things that are difficult in the breakup........maybe he'll try to make some things difficult...........but
remember.........you've
already done some things that must have been MASSIVELY difficult...........you coped with some of the things he threw at you at the time.........AND you got out of there!!!!
Now that shows you have incredible strength in there, so don't you go forgetting that!!!
Any difficulties you may face now.........you
can do this!!!!

And you have SO done the right thing!!!!
Kudos Zedsdead!!!!
Alison