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Originally Posted by Frankbtl
Hi Zedsdead
Not advise............but got to say.........REALLY WELL DONE!!!!
RESPECT!!!!! 
And hoping that you are so VERY proud of yourself!!! You deserve to be!!!!
And honestly..........maybe you'll come across some things that are difficult in the breakup........maybe he'll try to make some things difficult...........but remember.........you've already done some things that must have been MASSIVELY difficult...........you coped with some of the things he threw at you at the time.........AND you got out of there!!!!
Now that shows you have incredible strength in there, so don't you go forgetting that!!!
Any difficulties you may face now.........you can do this!!!!
And you have SO done the right thing!!!!
Kudos Zedsdead!!!!
Alison |
Thank you so much! I feel so enlightened and empowered. It's an amazing feeling really. I feel like im slowly finding my true self and I just am so relieved.
The one thing that is causing me a little bit of confusion, is he won't take breakup. He says no, we aren't breaking up. He texts all day paragraphs of love and promises. When he asks to speak to the kids he spends hours telling me he loves me and doesn't even talk to the kids.
He is away, so it's easy to ignore him. But he says he's coming to the house no matter what when hes off work. Iv told him to police will be called if he comes.. but can I actually call the police if this is all he is doing? Professing his love?
To me, it's just another game. Hes said this so many times. Every time iv tried to leave i hear this.
Does anybody have any advice? He's not acting angry really at all. It's make me feel a lot of doubt that hes even abusive.. but the last 2 years have been terrible.