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Originally Posted by unaluna
The point is, who is supposed to CHANGE their behavior? Who is supposed to LEARN something? Are we there to teach the ts how to get along better in their lives, have more productive work and love relationships? When do we do OUR part? When? Thats what i want to know. When the t is perfect, we dont have to change. When tbe t is NOT perfect, we want THEM to change. ???
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I don't follow this at all. Who is saying here the therapist needs to change? Only be a little more sensitive.
Additionally, isn't this blaming the client? OP here is being very accommodating.
And I think this can also be used to justify unprofessional behavior: so your therapist is always 20 minutes late and doesn't make up the time? Deal, client who needs to change!