Ok speaking as someone that freaks out at cancellations regardless of the amount of warning I receive; I would prefer my t to show up and be herself and if need be, show those not perfect human sides of herself. It would be nice if the was a way for her to let me know that she's not 100% in such a way that I didn't take poorly; however, I can't think of one. And yes we float the concept of aspergers as a dx, as the response is very similar to routine disruption stress rather than emotional distress.

OP - how would you have felt if she had cancelled on you for not being 100% but not cancelled on another client because of the different needs of the clients?