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Originally Posted by AnxiousGirl
My T is great for me. She's caring, kind, and patient which is what I need in a T. I know for a fact that any T I see I would have this issue. Even with people I know I'm still reserved. My trust with this T has been growing recently too so it's not like I want to switch T's. If I decide to stay it'll still be with her. But thanks for your input. There has been progress, but now it's the harder things and everything feels like it's piling up and I'm getting fed up with everything.
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the part I bolded - when I've said things like this in the past and asked to slow down t has said that's usually an indication to turn up the heat as she says. i don't know if that's true for everyone, but it worked for me - there were several times during my 5+ years with current t that this happened and I went twice a week for a short time more than once. and it helped.
Then again, it might also just be an indication that you need a break to kinda let the work you've done up til now 'gel'. i've taken breaks off and on and i know others here have too. (In fact i'm on a break right now, this time i feel like my break is not so much to let things gel, but a trial run for terminating.)
The answer is inside of you - you know what's best for you. I wish you all the best!!