I mostly use them to sit there while I talk about supporting my person who has advanced cancer that has metastasized in some unpleasant places for one to have cancer, and all the stupidity of the medical world and dealing with it. So you can yep yep all you like. It does not make you right. You do not know me or my motivation at all. Nor do you know what sort of therapy/use of therapists is right for anyone but yourself.