First congratulations. I'm in a mixed state now. My husband could have wrote this w/o the baby part. Has she ever tried an anti psychotic? I know the baby is young but can someone watch him/her for a few hours while you take a nap or take your wife on a date? Why is the Dr. impossible? She might do well in an intensive out patient program. What about therapy, even family therapy? It's quieter at night so it's easier, at least for me. I know the baby is young but is childcare an option?