On behalf of all the men around the world, I want to thank you for understanding the seriousness related to this topic and your efforts in finding a solution. Seriously, good for you but unfortunately I don't see flavored lube being the answer to your problems. I think you should consider dating guys who have smaller penises. If men fitting that description do not exist in your area, I would say you're next best option is to use more tongue. The only issue with this is that it may take more time to get to the center of the lollipop if you catch my drift, which I'm sure you do. But let's not forget, the act of giving oral sex is a selfless one, so what is good for your man, is good for you. I hope this helps. good luck!!