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Old Mar 07, 2017, 02:41 AM
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I think wanting change just means you are alive. I mean, unless it is extreme and out of character for you, moving doesn't seem like an unreasonable idea. Just plan before you act. Idk.

After being stuck in a hole of depression and finally coming out of it, I decided to apply to med school which had been my original plan after college. I suppose since I finally felt stable I felt capable of doing anything. Anyway I thought about it for a while but didn't tell anybody until I knew I was serious. And every one around me acted like it was some crazy impulsive idea that I pulled out of my *** or something.
The funny thing is after a while all my family and friends came around and then when i decided against going (I did actually get accepted into 1 overseas school on an island near fla), they were all mad. Like I had let them down... The point of my story is I don't think you can always get people to understand. I got reactions like this was some sort of hypomanic driven idea even though I was even less sure of a bp dx back then than I am now.

If people are pressuring you to settle down at 24- that seems crazy to me. What's the rush? You have lots of time still to do dumb **** and explore and have some fun along the way.
Sorry if this wasn't very helpful. But I hear you and if u think moving is a sound reasonable decision and you find a job and a place somewhere else that looks better, and you are confident it is really you making this decision, I say go for it. Best of luck. Be safe.
Hugs from:
apfei, H.R.Kain
Thanks for this!
H.R.Kain