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Old Mar 07, 2017, 04:24 AM
ScrewedUpMe ScrewedUpMe is offline
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Originally Posted by dtrain0802 View Post

And no, the OP HAS NOT made an attempt to see the other; although she admittedly say she has. Because doing so requires a conversation about the issue. Again, something along the lines of "Hey, I'm concerned about our progress these last couple of sessions. My husband mentioned (insert trauma here). Are you okay?" Or "Hey, is everything okay. I feel like something has been off with you lightly."
It is not my job to take care of her needs. When I mentioned something about the death of her father this time last year and how sorry I was etc. T made it very clear that it was not my place to comment or be concerned about her. Therefore unless she mentions it to me, I am not going to bring it up to her, I don't think she will appreciate that.
Thanks for this!
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