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Originally Posted by DadFMF
I know everyone's answer is get over her, move on with your life and everything else. I know it's easy to say that from the outside looking in but we have children together we had great times together and all this happened right as I deployed so I'm not sure if it's a phase that she Zen, a midlife crisis or what. Or she just changed I don't know. That's why don't want to give up
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- had great times? - thats exactly what I thought too in my own situation. "had" - past tense
- midlife ? - answered, reply above. It's NOT as Rose indicated. you are holding on to 'false hope' & an explanation
for this painful outcome. You are trying to cope .. Sadly, reality is very, very different! Get busy for your own good! 
- not giving up? she has. things HAVE CHANGED. you are NOT dealing with the same dynamic or situation, you are dealing with a phantom. Things have CHANGED
Here is the info. that I mentioned in my reply before this, as promised.
Re 'SNAP' Dated 07-28-15.
Originally Posted by vital
I have advice, profound. To feel brave and to heal from depression, reconnect with your inner power. Have a look
http://egg.bu.edu/~youssef/SNAP_CLUB...0164151576.pdf
You might find this handy also:
http://forums.psychcentral.com/4262681-post105.html
- vital
Now, GET OUT & LIVE!!!