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Originally Posted by ScrewedUpMe
The problem is I had no idea at the time that T had stuff going on. I really thought it was me. I thought T was frustrated with me because I wasn't in a great mood and had all my barriers up that she couldn't get through. I had no idea or reason to think she had anything going on that was affecting her. If she doesn't say it, I don't know.
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Its not about what you knew about t or how she was feeling. Its about you taking the chance and saying, something feels off. Instead of "putting your barriers up". I still cant figure out how it came to pass that your h called your t. Did you ask him to? Why would she even talk to him? Were you acting scary?
It doesnt sound like your t is strong enough to contain your feelings. Maybe your h needs help with that too?