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Originally Posted by unaluna
Its not about what you knew about t or how she was feeling. Its about you taking the chance and saying, something feels off. Instead of "putting your barriers up". I still cant figure out how it came to pass that your h called your t. Did you ask him to? Why would she even talk to him? Were you acting scary?
It doesnt sound like your t is strong enough to contain your feelings. Maybe your h needs help with that too?
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I didn't ask my husband to call T. Infact I was really angry that he did. He has called her before when I have been really affected by a session and unable to talk to her and acting out, self harm etc. But normally he has my permission to do so. He just wanted to help and sort it out. He wanted to tell T that I thought she was angry with me, to clarify the situation. And yeah, you're probably going to say I should be doing that myself. I know that but am still not able to.
And yes, I sometimes think T is not strong enough to contain my emotions.