((((((((((( Patty )))))))))))))
It's possible she's waiting until after the holiday. I'm sure she doesn't want you to have to equate the holiday with her passing. The will to go on is strong in most people. It is an inherent will....and at the same time, if one is spiritual, they are waiting for the "right time", maybe waiting for others to come for them and lead them home. My belief is that there is business to be taken care of.....spiritually....and it can take time for that to happen, for the individual to feel at peace and accept their time.
I'm so sorry you are all going through this. My heart goes out to you, your sister, your mom and the rest of your family. As you work through all your emotions, I pray you find a peace soon....knowing you are a good daughter, a loving daughter, a forgiving daughter and one who will carry her mother's memory in a positive and respectful light.
I'm so glad you have PC to lean on at this time. What a blessing for you and for all of us to be able to support you at this time. When we sit down for our dinner today, you and everyone at PC will be in our prayers.
Much love & respect

sabby