what's helped me the most (caused me to benifit)...is knowing that there is a God, also knowing "I'm not it " I may be the one in charge,I'm here to mind the store. Not the one who knows (whats going on for shore). I'm pretty glad that I don't bang my head no more, because I could'nt do his job my self-esteem was sore! Things work out much better when I live life this way, just doing what I'M supposed to do is enough for me today!