Note: I posted this same thread from my phone on tapatalk and I think it went to the wrong subgroup. If you've already seen it there, forgive me. Couldn't figure out how to move it here.


I found this test to see if your partner is a narcissist

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...e-50-ways-tell

and my husband passed with flying colors. I've really never understood what it meant to be a narcissist and mostly blamed myself for being too needy and overly sensitive.

So, if his behavior for the past 28 years has a name, does that really change anything? It's not really like there is anything I can do to change anything. I know. Boundaries. I'm working on that.

Does it dismiss his behavior because it has a name now and it's not like he can help it? He will never see it as something and own it.

Thoughts.