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Originally Posted by Frankbtl
WOAH Fuzzy!!!!
You are much more than "just" good enough!!! 
And you have absolutely NOTHING to apologise for AT ALL in my eyes 
You have been amazingly caring, considerate, empathetic and supportive to LOTS of people on here..........to say the least!!!
And trust me.........not managing to have a relationship with her...........you are so much better away from her.........from the type of person she was..........the type of person who could treat another person......... you...........as she did!!!
The lack of relationship is her loss.........she didn't deserve you in her life IMO
Alison
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Thanks Alison
I read somewhere a long time ago how having an "inadequate" mother sets someone up for a "lifetime of unrequited love"
I think there is a lot of truth in this.. I'm not sure what her "diagnosis" would have been, as neither of the parents, nor the step unit went for "help"..
So I received all the "glory"

from the professionals, all the labels and the blame...
I was honestly concerned about passing on.... ah but it's too late now, not much matters any more