The mother always said how I was a "very selfish young lady"...

When I was 18, a girlfriend of mine said something about me to her.. I was far from perfect, I was pretty screwed up even at that age

She told my girlfriend "she's always been like that"



Absolutely not I was just beginning to become a "person"

I have no idea where the mother was coming from with that statement. .....

(This same girlfriend said how the mother was a "sad person" ... the issue she commented upon was a behavioural issue - no physical or even emotional abuse on my part )