Maybe the office that handled your application is very lenient. But, then, why weren't you approved in 3 months. If you tell SSA, "I'm doing a beautiful job at my place of employment, but I don't think I will be able to continue doing that in the future." - then they will say, "Come back and see us, in the future, when you can no longer do your job." "Also, come back and see us when you can't do any job."

While you're "in demand," you are not disabled from gainful employment. Usually, they need to see a history of failure. Perhaps, your narrative is unusual and you had only a history of success. But "a history if failure" is, generally, very helpful in establishing a legitimate claim - one that will hold up.

"Nobody wants me" is not accepted by SSA based on the applicant's subjective impression. "Nobody wants me" only resonates with SSA, if they see a history of job failures. Such a history is not subjective. A history of job failure is an objective fact.

How long had you worked for your final employer?