My brother and his wife have posted pictures of our infirm dad online to solicit funds to help finish the house that he and I started to build but couldn’t because of his poor health and lack of funds. My dad would like help from his kids but he has a thing about having his information on the Internet and if he could understand what they did he would be highly upset.

The last time someone placed a picture of him on social media he had a cow. Threats were made and he and the person who posted last time got into a very heated argument about it. He can’t respond himself but I know how he would respond and I would like for my brother to take the pictures down as well as the crowd funding account.

I don’t disagree with my brothers idea but I don’t approve of the way he went about it. I want to confront him about it but he has been physically abusive in the past when confronted just because he thinks so highly of himself and has such a low opinion of others. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to get in a fight with him but I’m afraid it may come to that. I want him to see reason.