I don't understand why someone would even do that. It boggles my mind. I found out I was going to be a grandma along with every other knob on Facebook. I just found out my kids are going to Hawaii a half hour ago...yep, Facebook.

You are going to have to talk with your brother. Is there a way of doing so in a public place where he is less likely to act terribly or threateningly? Would it make you feel better if the picture was changed to one of a more robust figure of your father?