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Originally Posted by seesaw
Are you seeing a therapist? It sounds like this is a deep-seeded problem and I'm not sure I know how to help at all.
Maybe you are having dreams about her being evil because you are afraid she will reject you and how that makes you feel?
How much interaction have you had with this girl? What exactly do you mean by emotionally invested? I'm not sure I understand how you can be emotionally invested in a girl that you don't have any relationship with or aren't even dating.
Can you clarify what your current relationship and interactions are with this girl?
Seesaw
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I am seeing a therapist, she is very helpful when it comes to family and human interaction, but when it comes to girls, I feel like she is not very helpful. I haven't gotten much more confident since I started going.
Well, yea. It makes me feel sad and eventually makes me depressed.
I guess I get emotionally invested because I like this girl. And when she shows signs of interest, I am shocked to my core.
The current girl... I don't really know her, she is my cousins friend. But I guess thanks to imagination, I feel like I do. So there is no relationship. I made strong eye contact with her and then she tried to get my attention by staring at me, and things like that. It took me awhile to realize what is going on. And when I did, I got very sad about it REALLY quickly. And now she knows she got my attention, but my cousin tried to discourage me that she is not for me, we have nothing in common etc... it's a long story.
But it was the same for the girl before, the girl before was my coworker. Except, we got to know each other fairly well. Thanks to this girl, I went fully depressed for a couple of months. Again, sadness.
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Originally Posted by Erebos
Hey there, just wondered if you could tell us what your current status is with this girl.
Are you friends, dating. Or is this someone you see around school or work, but don't really talk too.
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She's a student that works at a bar one day a week. She's my cousins friend.
But I guess this is more of a general type of problem. I like a girl, but I am not "aware of it". I flirt using body language. Girl senses my interest. She flirts and/or shows that she is interested. BAAM, depression!
It used to be an issue with anxiety, but I feel like anxiety wasn't that difficult to overcome. I am clueless when it comes to depression.