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Old Mar 10, 2017, 11:07 AM
nyancatnyan nyancatnyan is offline
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That sounds very stressful. It is really hard when you have to rely on your family for help, especially at a point in your life when you would have felt you wouldn't need to again. If it is possible, I think communication is seriously lacking here so maybe sit down and talk to them. You must have been at least somewhat close with them at a time for them to be taking in you and your kids right now? They need to understand how you are feeling, and maybe there is things you dont understand how they are feeling. They sound like they have some distain for you, and like they maybe didn't want you to be living there to begin with and that could be part of the reason they are being so cruel. I think you all need to communicate your feelings, and I think you should find somewhere cheap to move out to, otherwise, when will you get to leave? Take out social insurance, move to a cheaper town/state, get assistance in finding somewhere to live from professionals, I think starting a new leaf, even at 50 would be better than staying where you are right now for everyone. You do not want to be bullied by your parents forever and your parents need to be separated from your children if you want to be able to earn their respect again without your parents intervening.