I think this is good insight too - my EMDR T is trained in TA and recommended a book to me in our last session. Both my T's are excellent but I have more transference with my main T , in some sense I see him as a little " magical " because he does the things I haven't experienced ( like owning his part when things go rocky ) which then unravels things from the past that might lead to a " flat " feeling. I do find it really helpful to look at my feelings and others here to help with processing and good T's contribute enormously and your T sounds like a good one !