That was pretty rude. I don't know why any T worth the title would respond like that. Now at one time I was seeing a T and also seeing an online T and that didn't go over well, but that's understandable. But coming to the forums is like a group therapy, unsupervised of course and maybe that's what you other T was concerned about. You getting the wrong information. I think if the client and T have an understanding that important issues can be discussed with forum members, but should also be shared with the T. Trouble is knowing what is important for them to know. Sounds like that wasn't the T you needed to be seeing.