Surely sounds like you have a lot on your plate.
I am very challenged with multiple conditions and have become my elderly mother's primary caregiver. It was sudden and we don't yet know if she will recover to her prior level of functioning. She was always very active. It's quite a challenge.
I try to find balance in everything, which can, in and of itself, feel like another chore sometimes. I cannot forget my own needs, my husband's needs and friends, etc, I need to make sure I am having some fun and have an overall good balance all the way around.
I get very tired and stressed at times.
We can only do the best we can do.

WC