I am sorry to hear that!You have done the best you can cutting this person out of your life,if you need some kind of revenge just tell everyone who knows this person what they did to you...and stand tall you have done nothing wrong and are the one wronged.Just remember that coward was trying to make out he did nothing wrong like he had made a mistake one that everyone makes,this is sheer ********,he knew what he was doing was wrong,he didn't do it by mistake he deliberately chose his behaviour.....don't let him emotionally manipulate you into agreeing he wasn't to blame and tell him his attempt to make it sound like an apology failed,tell it to someone who is gullible say.I know full well you knew what you did was wrong but did it anyway on purpose.You don't have to tell him this if you've gone no contact but say this to yourself so you know he isn't on.