I was given a choice by my T, go IP or go to a shelter. The shelter seemed safer and was. My daughter and I got a room for us alone. I too did not think my situation was that bad...that he even lays a finger on you by slapping you it is bad it will get worse. His threats of violence are bad. You are safer at a shelter than you are at your parents. I wish you the courage to leave and the safety of the shelter.