hi ght
thanks for your reply, my mind tends to wander alot so i acknowledge i need to stay more focused at work, and i really need to work on paying attention to detail again that is where getting my mind focused on work rather than on home life or anything else.

this an entry level job and i have been stuck in that spot for 14 years, but i also have fears taking on a higher level position because of more responsibilities and stress.... the job pays ok , i stay because the benfits are good and i get 4 weeks vacation time as well. what bothered me is her comparing me to newer people and she also knows that i do suffer from general anxiety which can peak at times... anyways nobody in my dept likes her so i guess we just have to suck it up and be grateful we do have a full time job.

anyways thanks again for your reply, i was hoping more would reply but
maybe they don't know what to say.

take care